Help with legal fees when you separate

Separating can be complicated, so you might need legal help. For example, if you and your ex-partner can’t agree on who will stay in the family home, or where your children will live.

You might be able to get help with legal costs depending on your income, if you have any savings and investments and how serious your case is.

Important

If you need to speak with someone about your partner being aggressive

If your partner makes you feel anxious or threatened, you should get help.

If you’re a woman affected by domestic abuse, you can call Refuge or Women's Aid on 0808 2000 247 at any time. 

If you're a man affected by domestic abuse you can call Men's Advice Line on 0808 801 0327 between 10am to 5pm, Monday to Friday.

If you’re unsure about what to do next, talk to an adviser.

Check if you can get legal aid

You might be able to get some or all of your legal costs paid by the government. This is known as 'legal aid' and you should get it if:

• you're using it to pay for mediation

• have experienced domestic abuse in the last 5 years 

• you're at risk of homelessness - for example, if your ex-partner is trying to throw you out of your home

Applying for legal aid

To get legal aid, your legal adviser or family mediator will need a legal aid contract.

Find a solicitor or mediator with a legal aid contract on GOV.UK. 

Your legal adviser or family mediator will check if you can get legal aid and apply for you. If you qualify, the legal aid will be paid directly to them. 

You’ll need to pay some legal aid back if you keep or gain any money or property at the end of your court case. You might be asked to do this through a lump sum, or monthly instalments of £25 or over.

If you have any questions, speak to your legal adviser or family mediator. You can also get help from your nearest Citizens Advice.

Going to court quickly if you or your children are in danger 

If you need to go to court quickly to keep you or your children safe from your ex-partner, you can ask your solicitor to apply for ‘emergency legal representation’. It pays your solicitor and court fees if you need a fast decision on money, property or children.

If you get emergency legal representation, you should also ask your solicitor to apply for legal aid for any future costs or court hearings.

If you can’t get legal aid

You might be able to get other help to pay for legal advice or court representation, including:

• free or low cost advice from a  solicitor or caseworker in a law centre

• up to half an hour free from a solicitor

• free advice (known as ‘pro bono’ advice) from a solicitor, although this is rare for separation cases

• free advice (known as ‘pro bono’ advice) from a volunteer barrister - find a volunteer barrister on the Advocate website

Paying less for a solicitor

You might be able to get free or low cost legal advice from a solicitor or legal adviser in a law centre.

Find your local law centre on the Law Centres Network. There might not be a law centre near you that covers family issues, but it’s worth checking.

If you can’t use a law centre, see if any solicitors near you offer half an hour of free advice. The Law Society can help you find a local solicitor.

Some solicitors offer more than half an hour of free advice, although this is fairly rare for separation cases. Ask your nearest Citizens Advice if they know of local solicitors who offer free advice. 

You should research different solicitors before deciding which to choose. Ask them how much they charge and how long they think the process will take.

Don’t automatically go for the cheapest or the closest. It’s important you feel you’ll have a good relationship with them. 

Paying less for a barrister

If your separation is complicated or needs specialist advice, a solicitor might pass your case to a barrister. You can also find a barrister on the Bar Council’s Direct Access Portal website.

If you can’t afford a barrister or get legal aid, Advocate might be able to find a barrister who will work on your case for free. You can find more information about Advocate on their website.

Representing yourself in court

If you can't get any help to pay for a solicitor or barrister, it’s possible to represent yourself in court - called being a ‘litigant in person’.

It's best to get legal advice if you can, so speak to your nearest Citizens Advice to see what your costs might be and your options for paying them.

Court hearings by phone or video call

The court will tell you what kind of hearing you’ll have. Check how to prepare for a hearing by phone or video call.

If you want to represent yourself, you can get advice on going to court without the help of a lawyer from Advicenow.

Paying less for court fees

You can check if you can get help with your court fees on GOV.UK.

To apply, fill in the form online then send it to the court dealing with your case. You can also use the form to get a refund for court fees you've paid in the last 3 months.

When you’re filling in the form, there are different sections for your and your partner's income and benefits. You don’t need to fill in any of your partner’s details if you’re separating from them - tick the box saying you’re single.

You can ask your nearest Citizens Advice for help with the form.

Send the form when you’re sending documents or applications to the court to avoid delay.

Separating can be stressful. If you need someone to talk to contact Relate or, if you have children, Gingerbread.